It’s Called a Christmas Sweater
I’m not going to sit here and act like I invented Christmas parties, because I didn’t. However, I am going to sit here and act like I invented Christmas sweater themed parties, because I did. It doesn’t grind my gears that millions of people around the world have stolen my idea but it does grind my gears that millions of people around the world refer to Christmas sweaters as “ugly sweaters”.
There are two main reasons why the term “ugly sweater” bothers me. The first is that I feel it degrades the festive spirit of Christmas. It’s not an “ugly sweater” at all; it’s a festive sweater. I’ve never once heard a Halloween costume called a “Skank costume” or a “Narcissistic Douche Bag costume” even though that’s exactly what most of them are. No matter how absurd a Halloween costume is they are always called just that, a Halloween costume. Consequently, Christmas sweaters must be treated with the same respect as Halloween costumes no matter how ridiculous the patterns on the front of the sweater happens to be.
The second reason why the term “ugly sweater” grinds my gears is that I feel it’s a term used by people lacking self-confidence. People hide behind the term “ugly sweater” when they wear a Christmas sweater because they don’t see the fun in the sweater. Because they don’t see the fun in the sweater they make fun of what they are wearing by calling it an “ugly sweater” before their peers have the opportunity to make fun of the sweater first. By calling a Christmas sweater an “ugly sweater” people instantly imply that they do not like what they are wearing and are embarrassed by their appearance.
The interesting thing about Christmas sweaters is that they are constant and consistent. I was perusing through The Bay today and saw a Christmas sweater made by Ralph Lauren. It was a classic knitted sweater with a silhouette of a reindeer surrounded by snowflakes on it. Intrigued by it’s quality, I checked the price tag of the sweater only to find that it was $150. The question I would like to know is whether this $150 Ralph Lauren sweater is a Christmas sweater, an “ugly sweater”, or just a sweater made by Ralph Lauren? I would call it a Christmas sweater but I would bet there are a lot of narcissistic douche bags out there that would call this a sweater by Ralph Lauren.